Why is choosing to love everyone such a hard sell? Because:
1) we ask people to "earn" our love
2) we think if we love everyone, even the bus-driver, then our love is not special
3) we believe love is about who is loved not who chooses to love and
4) we think we become more vulnerable when we love.
Totally incorrect. Those who choose to love, choose power, kindness and caring from within. Choose love!
Can people experience and change because you love them? As if your love "infiltrates" their physiological and spiritual systems without their permission. The basics: stimulus-belief-response. When someone loves you, in your universe, they are the "stimulus." You can be open to how they choose to be with you and feel nourished. You can also decide to be fearful or self-protective. It's your option!