FROM BEARS (Barry Neil Kaufman): Why is choosing to love everyone such a hard sell? Because
1) we ask people to "earn" our love,
2) we think if we love everyone, even the bus-driver, then our love is not special,
3) we believe love is about who is loved not who chooses to love, and
4) we think we become more vulnerable when we love.
Totally incorrect. Those who choose to love, choose power, kindness and caring from within.